Unwanted babies deserve a fighting chance
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March 01, 2006
Children's rights form a rare common ground shared by all political spectrums, religions and nationalities. Though ideal solutions to unwanted children differ, no sane adult believes any child should grow up without a nurturing home.
As the Czech Republic begins adopting a technological ground-level solution in the form of heated, alarm-equipped baby boxes at private hospitals, the country finds itself wrestling with questions that do little to bring about meaningful solutions.
It's inherently chilling to encounter a metal door in the wall that looks to all appearances like a library book deposit chute and imagine a parent placing an infant inside and walking away forever. But the consequences of a system that provides no options or resources for unwanted and orphaned children are far worse.
The annual International Conference on Children's Rights has just closed in Bucharest, the capital of a country that since well before the 1989 collapse of the Eastern bloc illustrated a horrifying worst-case scenario for societies that choose to neglect this issue.
Under the demented dictator Nicolae Ceausescu, Romanian couples were forced under threat of strict penalty to have more children than they could afford, thousands of which ended up in state institutions that could not afford to care for them much better. Many became HIV-infected after state-ordered blood transfusions, carried out with unscreened blood, were adopted as incredible as it sounds as a health measure.
The Czech Republic, even under the pre-1989 regime, never reached such levels of poverty, but there are still far too many children warehoused here. Some 20,000 are currently in state care, mainly in understaffed, underfunded Dickensian institutions. Compare that to just 6,000 children in state institutions in the much wealthier United Kingdom, which has a population six times larger than the Czech Republic's 10.2 million.
Clearly, the long shadow of communist thinking has left us with our own problems, though mercifully they're far less acute than Romania's. The pre-1989 preference of handing off babies and children with even mild retardation or disabilities persists among many Czechs, who are only now coming to accept the vastly better option of handling these problems with home care.
As Marie Vodičková, director of the Fund for Children in Need, says, "The government continues to prefer state institutions as a solution for unwanted children."
Another antiquated idea just as hazardous still proffered by many educated young medical professionals is that children who are handed off by parents who feel they cannot provide for them are, essentially, damaged goods no one will want.
These arguments, leveled against those who advocate safe, anonymous, well-located baby boxes and a modern adoption system to back them up, are about as well-founded as a fear of black cats.
"It's absolutely not true," says Vodičková, "that people are afraid to adopt children that have been anonymously dropped off."
What some people really fear, it seems, is having to admit that a new idea they've resisted might actually work.
Reader's Comments:
[08/04/2006] : Dear friends,
I work in an Romanian NGO who is taking care of babies abandoned in hospitals. This is still happening here, but less and less frequently. We counsel the mothers who seem at risk of abandoning the baby and then we provide support for them in community (material, emotional).
The first solution to abandonment should be reintegration into the natural family (for which the most effort and material resources should be committed) and only then should we consider foster care or adoption.
Since I have got involved in this work, over 4 years ago, I have seen babies growing up happily in poor families. Moreover, a child conquers the heart of even the most neglectful parent (except for some extreme pathological cases).
Nowadays, people do not have time to reflect to their problems and we have lost, in this secular world, one of the values our grandparents left for us - the faith.
We shouldn't favour this immature attitude of some parents who do not want to fight for their status as a parent, but instead to support them in various ways.
Cristian Chiriac Craiova, Romania | [08/03/2006] : It`s awful read or listen things as this.In my opinion it`s penal act drop baby to child`s box and leav this vulnerable child without any anxiety.This solution is shameful and nasty act something.I really don`t know how can somebody offer this solution to public.The same "thing" is in Slovakia too.I`m very dissapointed from this news and shocked.Civilisation decide for very sick steps a lot of times.And this is one of them.Richard Cviklovic,Slovakia,EU.
Richard Cviklovic Slovakia,EU. | [08/03/2006] : Why don't the Czech authorities sell the excess babies to people in the United States? 20,000 children at about $20,000 a piece (the current going rate for white babies) is $400,000,000 - enough to clean up most of the Czech Republic's environmental problems including Termelin.
This may sound cynical; however the children would certainly have better lives if they were brought up by parents who actually wanted them.
Margaret Drabble Melbourne | [08/03/2006] : Oh thank goodness for the amazing and wonderful Americans saving all those darling babies from the evil Czechs!
Wow – Americans will even adopt black *and* disabled children!
I've got a better idea, why not just annihilate the Czech Republic and fill it up with Americans since they’re so amazing?
Seriously now, I’ve never heard so much rubbish in all my life. If you look at why some Americans are so ready and willing to adopt babies and why some parents are driven to such heartbreaking measures as to take a baby to a baby box, you might find some common reasoning – namely money
Dom Hardy Brighton, England | [08/03/2006] : Am I reading that Czechs like to dump off babies that don't measure up to the parent's expectations? The Czech Republic is not some third world country. Even in Africa this would be considered horrendous. Open up the adoption process to Americans and you will see those state run ghettos empty out in one year, Americans roam the world looking for children to adopt. My own daughter has an adopted son. Many white US couples adopt children that are black, yellow,and physically handicaped. All children are perfect. Some are more perfect than others, but all are perfect. Does this suggest that too many of todays young, of child bearing age, are hedonistic? What did their parents teach them? This is another thing that can be laid at the feet of "communism expediancy", the lack of morals, and lack of church teachings. Discussting!
Dusan Lipensky USA |
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